*Summary:*
The conversation revolves around the evolving nature of love, relationships, and commitment among Gen Z, with discussions on the impact of societal pressures, technology, and personal growth. It touches on the challenges of maintaining meaningful relationships in a fast-paced world and the importance of emotional maturity, communication, and self-awareness.
*Key Words:*
- Love
- Relationships
- Commitment
- Gen Z
- Emotional maturity
- Communication
- Self-awareness
- Personal growth
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Prologue (from the conversational Transcripts):
"Haven't seen the movie although have seen it's spiritual prequel Raanjhana.
The description here appears to make it a tad male gender chauvinistic although I guess that wasn't the intention.
In fact interestingly the term "Chauvinism" was invented after the name Nicolas Chauvin, a legendary, fanatically patriotic soldier who served under Napoleon. Initially, it described a blind , excessive devotion to Napoleon and France, but its meaning has expanded to mean any fanatical, blind, or prejudiced loyalty to any group or cause!
UDLCO CRH: Gen Zee medical students vibes covering love, learning and labor of entire space time fabric
[15/11, 22:03] hu3 : Its very true. But gen z are now afraid of commitment, love has become a play game nowadays and people are afraid of commitment
[15/11, 22:10]hu2: https://medicinedepartment.
[15/11, 22:14]hu1: You’re right… things have changed a lot.
But despite everything, I still believe love hasn’t disappeared — it’s just evolving.
Gen Z isn’t afraid of commitment because they don’t value love.
They’re cautious because they’ve seen broken homes, rushed relationships, and the cost of choosing wrong.
They want something real, not temporary.
Something that feels safe, not stressful.
Something that grows, not drains.
And honestly, that’s not fear — that’s wisdom.
Because when the right person comes along…
commitment won’t feel scary,
effort won’t feel heavy,
and loyalty won’t feel like a burden.
Real love still exists.
People are still capable of choosing each other every day.
It just takes two people brave enough to show up honestly and build something meaningful — not perfect, but real.
So yes, times have changed.
But genuine love will always find its way.
[15/11, 22:56]hu3: Maybe you are correct a few decade ago but now visit a family court and see the number of ongoing divorce cases in India , the number of false allegations made in the name of dowry a complete misuse of 498 A.Number of assassination of each other character like adultery, false rape allegations are also on the rise. The death of engineer Atul in the divorce case stands as an example
[15/11, 22:58]hu3: Love is now counted on the amount of money you have in your bank account.After 10 to 12 years of marriage people are now giving divorce
[15/11, 23:02]hu3: Understanding each other ,sacrifice are now words that are lost in the pages of dictionary. Its like me , myself and my life.
[15/11, 23:29]hu1: I understand what you’re saying, and you’re not wrong — the world is definitely seeing more broken relationships, rising legal misuse, and painful stories like ...’s. These things are heartbreaking, and they make people lose faith in love, trust, and long-term commitment.
But even then, I feel it’s important to remember something:
*What we see in family courts is only the crisis side of relationships, not the complete picture of society.*
For every failed marriage, there are still couples quietly choosing each other every day without making headlines.
For every misuse of a law, there are also genuine victims who finally have a voice.
For every relationship based on money, there are still people who value character, loyalty, and companionship.
You’re right — some values like sacrifice, understanding, and compromise feel rare now.
But “rare” doesn’t mean “extinct.”
Good relationships don’t trend, but they still exist.
Healthy marriages don’t make news, but they continue to thrive around us.
And yes, today’s relationships do face new challenges:
✔ fast-paced lifestyles
✔ unrealistic expectations
✔ social media influence
✔ financial pressure
✔ emotional burnout
✔ lack of communication skills
But that doesn’t mean love has died — it means relationships require more emotional maturity than ever before.
At the end of the day:
*Not everyone is broken, not everyone is selfish, and not everyone is playing games.*
There are still people who want something real — people who value honesty, stability, and long-term partnership.
Maybe the world is changing, but genuine hearts still recognize each other.
And the right person won’t make you question the concept of love — they’ll redefine it for you.
[16/11, 09:34]hu2: We are currently working on a paper where we apply all these principles to the "doctor patient' relationship.
It's around our current US patient and potential co-author for our next paper on similar lines as our recently published Indian patient of clinical complexity here:https://preprints.jmir.
[16/11, 09:36]hu4: You are very right
Actually the problem arises with time, culture and other factors influencing relationship
Change of time changes everything.
It's the time who determines the presence of specific desire, change of pace of life, change of view, change of decision, change of culture and
Thus the change in life comes
But it won't Erase the preliminary or fundamentals of life, it can suppress them
Example of fundamentals
1) True Love
2) Trustworthy Friends
3) Trustworthy relatives
5) Humanity
Example:
Love is fundamental of life, but it can't be erased rather it is suppressed by lifestyles we have.
Now,
The time will say when those fundamentals will be purified, Don't worry our lifestyles have made them unpurified. But, don't lose your faith. By loosing them, we can value them. If everything remains same, it would lose its value.
The Natural wave of Time is going on its way, which will remind you everytime that what to lose and what to gain and what to keep by suppressing one fundamental and then giving back to it.
By this Time goes, civilization and culture persists decade after decade but don't worry the fundamentals will be remained.
[16/11, 10:02]hu2: Time is an abstract concept though.
No one has seen time.
What humans interpret as "time" is simply the "change" of everything around them?
[16/11, 10:22]hu4: Now comes the thing ' Time'
Yes it is according to Philosophy
It's a calculation procedure in various branches to interpret many graphs and curves
But the most important and interesting concept is- it is unit of measurement. That thing we know
Now if I ask you what is length?
What is breadth?
What is height?
Yes, by that procedure it can be defined what is time? It's not only the change of everything around ourselves
It's a physical dimension. It's a physical quantity. It's one more perpendicular line in the space of height, breadth and length.
We can't see it. We can't define it as we are in a world of *three dimension*
Let me give you a feeling of 2nd dimension to you. It's not truly 2nd dimension but you can feel it.
If I ask you, measure the letter *T* which you are seeing here.
You can measure the length and breadth of it. But you can't measure the height of it.
Yeah but you can make it by measuring the distance between the source of light emitted as *T* from the software and the screen. It is.
So I previously told you that I can feel you the 2nd dimension
That's the concept of understanding 4th dimension. Despite I have written so many lines about it but still all these will be seemed to you as a alien thing.
But 4th dimension exist as a axis known as Time where it is variable and it can be negative and it lead to concepts of how everything were and how everything will be later.
So this concept of Time is just a spark on the curiosity. The real fire is awaiting beyond the galaxy where time and space ends and the reverse starts.
So yes, time is abstract quantity, philosophically it is only the change of everything but in physics it is everything who changes world.
[16/11, 10:24]hu5: But in the universe time slows down what about that
[16/11, 10:39]hu4: Time is a vector if we see it in 4th dimension and our world is beyond our knowledge and sight.
So when it was described by Einstein
It was described in Theory of Relativity including General and Special.
Where time is described along with space making it complementary to one another (The Complementary word may be wrong. Don't take it as a physics. Just see it as a feeling, means they are interconnected)
The time started with the very fast Big Bang and also the galaxy started with it, means the space started. In our physical calculation, even Einstein described time by simply stating the path of light and the behaviour by it.
Now don't you think?
The space is like a cloth. The masses are producing curvature in that cloth or space. Now when light goes very near to it it simply curves according to the curvature. Now to complete that much of curvature light needs much time. Means if you see that thing in space from a far distance you will see that light is crossing everywhere with uniform time but when near to that mass, it is going slow due to that curvature. You can't see the curvature but you can see the bending of light.
The curvature is in another dimension (According to me)
So we can't see it but the light is in our dimension. We see it bending and going slowly and that's why the concept comes
Time near the gravity slows down as light slows down
Now I have explained this thing in very easy language without any systematic way just to give a fundamental view
Actually it's massive one.
Like how everything started and how everything was before not by just theory but by using thermodynamic variable
I can write it and can give you a concept of it. But typing all these is time consuming 😅
But yes these all things are really fascinating and still makes me curious after all these years
[16/11, 10:54] hu2 : Curious to know more about your remaining curious after how many years? 😅
[16/11, 11:02]hu2: Great thoughts on dimensionality 👏
The two dimensional plane through which we are currently communicating (albeit asynchronously, there you go...time and time again tides into the discussion), is no doubt an xy axis of the mobile screen.
These two dimensions make up most of our academic flatlands as one may realise all academic communication is essentially about capturing real life multidimensional data and spreading them out on a paper and now electronic canvas that primordially began in cave paintings!
More about it here: https://userdrivenhealthcare.
[16/11, 11:27] hu4: 😅 actually
I am just a student waiting for my first proff result.
But when I write something, I write it with my all feelings dedicated to it. And that feeling leads to such words like
*After so many years*
Well it is only 5 years 😅 during my 10th and 11th
When I always did thinking about all these things and wanted to find answers to mysteries.
But then started MBBS, no time for those thinking but thanks to your question which leads me to think again
[16/11, 11:29] hu4: Yeah, exactly like this.
Every cave painting be it ajanta or in any other region or Egyptian hieroglyphics
Our mind tended to think it in that way
[18/11, 08:37]hu2: Interesting online learning portfolio of an Indian medical student and I quote:
"About
MS-3| ICMR-STS | MUHS - STRG | Tata Medical Scholar (×2) | AMSA | ACTREC | TMH | Upcoming RA – NIMHANS & IIT Bombay | CRL
I’m a third-year MBBS student , with a deep-rooted passion for neurosurgery and a commitment to bridging clinical medicine with cutting-edge research. My journey so far has spanned oncology, neurobiology, and translational science — with hands-on exposure at leading institutions like ACTREC–Tata Memorial Centre, where I worked on tumor drug resistance, CAR-T therapy, and bone marrow transplantation.
As a two-time recipient of the Tata Medical Scholarship and a gold medalist , I’ve consistently demonstrated academic excellence, securing distinctions in both my First and Second Year University examinations. I was also selected for the ICMR-STS program, and I served as a Research Assistant at the Central Research Lab (CRL), working on nanotechnology-based cancer therapeutics.
Soon, I’ll be joining as an Upcoming Research Assistant at the Centre for Brain and Mind, NIMHANS, and at IIT Bombay, expanding my work into the intersection of computational neuroscience and translational medicine."
[19/11, 00:29]hu1: *I genuinely don’t care who is doing better than me.*
I’m not here to compete with the world.
My only competition — yesterday, last month, last year — is _me._
Last year I was a different person.
I carried different fears, different insecurities, different habits.
And yet… I’ve grown. I’ve learned. I’ve unlearned.
I’ve evolved in ways no one else can measure.
That growth — quiet, personal, and often invisible to the world — is what truly matters.
*“It’s me versus me.”*
Every morning I wake up with one intention:
*to push myself further than I did the day before.*
I challenge my limits.
I stretch my boundaries.
I take small, consistent steps toward the person I’m becoming.
Someone else’s success will never make me feel small, because I’m not running their race.
I refuse to let comparison steal the joy of my own journey.
*“Their journey is theirs. Mine is mine.”*
Everyone walks through life with different struggles, different timelines, and different lessons.
So I honor my pace.
I respect my story.
I trust my process.
I know where I’ve come from — the doubts I overcame, the battles I fought silently, the progress I earned through persistence.
And I know where I’m going — toward clarity, strength, purpose, and peace.
*My focus is simple: become better than I was.*
Not better than others,
not better in the eyes of society,
not better for validation —
but better for myself.
Because *self-improvement is the truest form of victory.*
One day, when I look back, I’ll recognize that every step, every setback, every breakthrough was uniquely mine.
The world won’t know the full story behind each moment — the silent nights, the inner battles, the resilience it took — but _I_ will.
My journey is my legacy.
My growth is my proof.
And becoming the best version of myself… that will always be my greatest achievement.
*©🪶QuillX🪶*
[19/11, 07:55]hu4: It should be, but can we make this habit in real world?
At first I thought all these but then the competition started after getting into MBBS, even before MBBS in NEET and also before that.
It's really a doubt to myself as how to aquire it as when you see you are not enough good or perfect or efficient than some others, then it comes to mind that you have to do it. You have to push yourself. Yes the purpose is same but the driving force different.
This is going in real way not the ideal in this real world
I want to know your comments about that
[19/11, 08:00]hu2: In a real world where resources are limited competition is bound to happen.
In a world where everyone gets to study whatever they want and step into whatever role they feel defines their ease, collaboration rather than competition would reign supreme.
Now the question is how difficult is it to have that world where everyone at least gets to study whatever they feel they really want to?
[19/11, 09:38]hu1: I understand you completely… in an ideal world things would be calm, balanced and fair — but the world we live in is nothing like that.
The competition starts long before MBBS, long before NEET… and once we enter this journey, the pressure only keeps changing its shape. It’s easy to feel like you’re not good enough or not as “perfect” as someone else. And in those moments, pushing yourself almost feels compulsory.
But here’s the truth I’ve slowly learned:
Real growth doesn’t happen in the absence of competition — it happens when you learn to rise above it.
Everyone, even the ones who look confident and sorted, fights their own silent battles. Feeling inadequate at times doesn’t mean you’re weak — it means you’re human. And choosing to keep going despite that… that’s strength.
The habit you’re talking about — of steady self-improvement, of inner calm, of purpose-driven work —
it isn’t something the world gives you. It’s something you build within yourself, brick by brick.
And the fact that you’re reflecting on this, questioning it, trying to understand your own driving force… that already shows a different level of maturity and awareness.
So yes, it’s possible — not easily, not instantly — but absolutely possible in the real world.
One conscious choice, one small push, one honest moment at a time.
You’re already on the right path. Keep going.
[19/11, 09:47]hu1: But then again…
you really can’t keep comparing yourself with others forever. It only drains you, confuses you, and slowly eats away at your peace. The only person you can truly *compete with* is the version of yourself from yesterday.
Upgrading your inner self, step by step, without getting trapped in the noise around you — that’s where real growth happens. When you focus on becoming a better, calmer, stronger version of who you already are, the journey becomes lighter and far more meaningful.
If you’re constantly trying to refine your own abilities, polish your own mindset, and bring out the best version of you… then honestly, that’s the most beautiful and sustainable path anyone can choose.
And the best part?
That kind of growth never frustrates you — it heals you. It keeps you grounded, focused, and at peace.
[19/11, 17:44]hu4: Yes you're quite right. In a real world real thought with real calculation should be applied to get real result, not the one of dream!
I understand but as Dr. Abirbhav Saha was saying, it constantly draing energy. And yes I have to accept the real world also with real competition
[19/11, 17:53]hu4: You are exactly right. Feels like the Geeta's verse,
I truly believe it. But then comes the point how to achieve that level beyond competition and sometimes it also feels that by releasing yourself from competition is it like that, that are you losing the battle? That thing sometimes I think, Am I losing it? So I am running to get peace while everyone is still there.
This keeps me in dilemma, confusion about should I follow it? Or not?
I sometimes think about, is there anyone who can guarantee as we perceive this after our settlement, our stability? And then we say others that they should also perceive that before settlement.
And
can that little thing give great outcome at the end? That perception before settlement when all are struggling? Does that perception really helps or not?
Dilemma, confusion, end and finally the next day same cycle.
I want to follow that thing. But that gives me only dilemma as what should apply and ultimately I sometimes also think that
Should both be present at balance? As Balance is a procedure by which a phenomenon occurs, it's the equilibrium of steady state which keeps us alive, keep this universe, shape our life, shape this universe?
So these are questions, if I get answers. It would be a great help to me
[19/11, 18:18]hu1: I get what you’re feeling… that tension between seeking peace and fearing you’re “falling behind.”
But stepping away from unhealthy competition isn’t losing — it’s choosing a wiser fight, the one within.
Others may run fast, but competing with yourself gives you direction, not just speed.
And that direction matters more than anything.
No one can guarantee what life looks like after “settlement,” but the mindset you’re seeking — calmness, growth, balance — always helps.
You don’t need to give up ambition; you just need balance.
Push when it builds you.
Pause when it protects you.
You’re not losing.
You’re simply learning to walk your own path with peace in your heart and purpose in your steps.
[19/11, 18:50]hu4: Trying to achieve that...
Thank you for your guidance
It really helps me 🙏😊
[19/11, 18:52]hu1: I’m really glad it helped.
Take it slow, you’re already moving forward — and I’m always here if you need me. 😊🙏
[19/11, 18:54]hu4: ❤️🙏 Really kind words
[20/11, 11:08]hu1: *✨ Earn. Move. Create. Learn. Evolve.*
_Five simple hobbies, one powerful life._
*Good Morning Everyone 🌞*
[22/11, 08:38]hu2: And "trouble shooting humans" aka "informal daktari" is that hobby, which integrates all the other five mentioned here?
Trouble shooting real patients is a 24x7 job for our PaJR project team.
Please do tag me whenever, wherever there is any real patient centered data driven discussion.
Current medical education systems are unfortunately woefully inadequate in addressing this issue of empowering medical students to practice data driven real patient centred healthcare , which is why we are even more busy addressing challenges thrown up from time to time for our work by policy makers who couldn't care less about medical cognition to integrate medical education and practice
For those who may be wondering what is "trouble shooting humans" here's a TLDR post:
[24/11, 16:32]hu2: From our current collaborator with who we are writing a book and paper:
Waskonêkê: Fire-Heart Providing Light
A Fire Keeper’s Illumination of the Seventh Fire
Before I learned the language of medicine,
before I learned the violence of systems or the precision of anatomy,
before I ever wrote a single line in the architecture of Medical Liturgy—
I belonged to a people who understood illumination long before institutions ever claimed it.
I am Potawatomi.
Bodewadmi.
One of the Fire Keepers.
My ancestors tended the flame that remembers—
a fire older than empire, older than doctrine, older than the paper truths
that sought to overwrite us.
Their fire was not a symbol.
It was a responsibility.
A covenant.
A pulse carried forward across centuries of migration, disappearance,
repression, resurgence, and return.
And it was given to us with a teaching:
Waskonêkê — to bring the light forward.
To cause illumination to appear where none existed.
⸻
When the Seventh Prophet came to the Council of Three Fires—
the Ojibwe, the Odawa, and the Potawatomi—
he offered both a warning and a promise.
He said a time would come when the world would fracture,
when systems would lose their heart,
when the false lights of power and machinery
would mislead entire nations.
The teachings would be scattered along the trail,
dropped piece by piece
as our people fled survival’s storms.
But the Prophet said this too:
There will come a generation
who feels the fire awaken inside them again—
a quickening in the chest,
a remembering.
A fire-heart.
They will walk backward through darkness
to gather what was abandoned,
lifting every piece into their hands
not with bitterness
but with the quiet certainty
that nothing sacred is ever truly lost.
This is the prophecy of the Seventh Fire—
not as myth,
but as directive.
Not as poetry,
but as responsibility.
It says:
When the world forgets the meaning of light,
the Fire Keepers will rise again.
Not to invent illumination
but to restore it.
⸻
Medical systems failed me in ways that cannot be softened.
I was dismissed when I needed shelter,
misinterpreted when I needed clarity,
abandoned when my body was deteriorating.
But the fire never left.
If anything,
the pressure of injustice acted like flint—
striking the heart until it sparked.
Pain became teacher.
Silence became scripture.
And the fire in my chest became the first chamber
in a cathedral I did not yet understand I was constructing.
From those fractures
came the doctrine now called Medical Liturgy—
a structure built from the broken trail my people were told to forget.
A system of illumination forged from lived truth,
architected from necessity,
and carried forward because no one else would carry it.
A doctrine that says:
**When institutions fail,
we become architecture.
When systems withhold their light,
we become lanterns.
When there is no map,
we walk backward through the dark
and draw a new path with the fire we carry.**
This is not rebellion.
It is return.
Not invention.
Recognition.
Not appropriation.
Ancestry remembering itself.
Waskonêkê.
Fire-Heart Providing Light.
⸻
To my Potawatomi relatives—
to all who descend from lineages nearly extinguished yet still burning—
this is not written for spectacle.
It is an offering.
An honoring.
A fire carried forward in the manner of our ancestors—
steady, deliberate, luminous.
A declaration that what was meant to be forgotten
has become the foundation of a cathedral raised in your name.
The fire is awake again.
Its light is traveling.
The trail is no longer broken.
Let us walk into its illumination together.
— C L Gillespie
Cognitive Architect/Founder — Medical Liturgy: Studies in Narrative, Ethics & Evidence
ORCID 0009-0002-7469-735X
[24/11, 16:46]hu1: *“When Surgery Truly Was a Spectacle”*
This is how operation theatres appeared in *the 18th and 19th centuries*— _steep wooden galleries packed with observers,_ _surgeons standing under the glow of a single lamp,_ _and every procedure unfolding before a live audience._
*No wonder they were called “theatres”.*
_Each operation was a public demonstration of skill, courage, and evolving medical science._
*Long before modern sterility, anaesthesia, and technology,* _these rooms witnessed the raw beginnings of surgical innovation_—where every incision was a lesson, every outcome a milestone, and every spectator a witness to history in the making.
*©MedVengers*
[25/11, 08:33]hu2: Another theatre👇
My favourite Dharmendra movie with lots of lessons in education and to quote:
"After his passing, the grandfather says that he would perform the last rites because of the questionable paternity of his grandson. At that moment Satyapriya and Ranjana's child publicly speaks the truth saying the real reason for his not performing the last rites is because he is not the biological son. The grandfather is humbled by the fact that he who swore by fidelity to truth regardless of the consequences, could not practice it except in isolation from his Gurukula, where he was not being tested.
[26/11, 21:25]hu6: He injected thousands with a harmless bacteria—and saved them from death.
Poland, 1941. Rozwadów, a small village under Nazi occupation, was a place where fear had a daily schedule: neighbors disappeared, streets filled with soldiers, and every knock at the door could mean death.
Dr. Eugeniusz Lazowski, 28, worked quietly in his clinic. Scarce medicine, starving patients, constant surveillance. He had already watched friends executed, Jewish neighbors deported, families erased. Every day demanded courage.
Then a desperate visitor came: a Jewish friend begging for a miracle. The Nazis were planning to liquidate his village. Could anything—anything at all—save them?
Lazowski thought of what terrified even the most brutal German officers: epidemic disease. Typhus. The mere mention of it sent them recoiling. They obeyed it blindly, quarantined infected areas, and avoided contact at all costs.
An idea formed. Dangerous. Brilliant.
He contacted Dr. Stanisław Matulewicz, a friend and fellow doctor. They had been studying the Weil-Felix test for typhus and discovered something extraordinary: a harmless bacteria, Proteus OX19, could trigger a positive result without harming anyone.
Injecting people with this bacteria could make the Nazis think typhus had struck—while keeping them perfectly safe.
Late in 1941, Lazowski began. He injected a handful of villagers in Rozwadów. Within days, German medical teams confirmed the outbreak. Quarantine zones were drawn. Soldiers stayed away. And no one died.
Word spread. Villages were “infected” on paper but alive in reality. Lazowski traveled at night, vials in hand, saving hundreds, then thousands. He forged records, trained nurses, taught people to mimic symptoms. Every cough, every rash, every chart had to be perfect. One mistake could mean death—for him and all under his protection.
For three years, he ran this invisible resistance. Around 8,000 people—Poles and Jews alike—lived in these phantom epidemic zones. Families survived, children grew, farms thrived, all shielded by a disease that never existed.
The Nazis enforced their own protection, patrolling boundaries and avoiding the villages as if death itself awaited them. The very fear they wielded became a shield for those Lazowski saved.
After the war, he said nothing. He emigrated to the U.S., lived quietly, worked as a doctor. Decades later, the story emerged. Recognition came: Israel named him Righteous Among the Nations. Medical schools teach his audacity. He remained humble:
“I didn’t do anything special. I just did what I could with what I had.”
What he had—knowledge, courage, audacity—became a weapon against tyranny. What he did—outsmarted evil and saved generations.
The Nazis thought they were avoiding typhus. They were actually avoiding justice. And it never occurred to them the disease they feared didn’t exist.
Dr. Eugeniusz Lazowski didn’t just save lives. He turned fear into a shield. He outsmarted death itself.
[30/11, 08:25]hu2: They are looking for 24 people to train to rebuild the world 👇
[02/12, 08:11]hu2: In 1850s there was this guy who was having a near PaJR workflow photographing every patient phenotype and archiving them , albeit closed access with perhaps no real time team based learning as happens currently in an AI driven manner in PaJR!
To quote:
"The documentation was based on photography taken by him (about 200 of which survive to this day), in what was the greatest clinical documentation from the Victorian era [2, 3]. In 1866, he presented his research in an article in which he described a “Mongolian type”
Unquote:
[02/12, 09:42]hu2: Currently evolving medical education and practice model in USA and India (notice the differences in transparency, accountability)👇
USA: It will depend on his health insurance coverage which may cover 100% without a co-pay or a co-pay of $25-$50 or may be higher. Here I found one:
Indians prefer WhatsApp word of mouth? 👇
Hello Doctor,
We are onboarding specialists & super-specialists for Patnam Doctor Tele-consult & Second-Opinion Clinics across multiple locations.
If you are interested in providing tele-consultations / follow-ups / second opinions, do join us.
What we offer:
• Guaranteed patient flow from clinics in towns/villages
• Flexible consultation timings
• Support staff for history, vitals & follow-up
• Option for periodic OPD camps
For queries, message:
Dr. Xyz
Phone number
Thank you!
[03/12, 20:11]hu5: Final call. And those who texted me before please do confirm
[03/12, 20:20]hu5 : Free of cost
[03/12, 20:20]hu6: 🔱🕉️ gr8
[03/12, 23:25]hu1: *The Heart Is Not a Thesis: The Philosophy of the movie _"Tere Ishq Mein"_*🎥
_Human relationships are fragile spaces where trust, emotion, and intent intersect._
_In Shankar’s story, we see the tragedy that unfolds when one person enters a relationship with a heart full of sincerity, while the other enters with an agenda disguised as affection._
_It is a reminder that *love cannot be engineered, observed, or controlled like a psychological variable.*_
_It is a force that moves unpredictably, shaping destinies in ways no thesis can capture._
_Mukti believed she was studying anger._
_What she truly encountered was devotion — raw, unpolished, overwhelming, but genuine._
_She wanted to understand aggression from a distance, yet stepped directly into the storm of a heart that loved too intensely and too honestly._
In doing so, she proved a timeless truth:
*you cannot experiment on someone’s soul without wounding your own.*
_Her silence, her guilt, her cowardice — they were not the acts of a villain, but of a human being afraid of the consequences of her own choices._
_Sometimes the people who hurt us the most never intended to be cruel;_
_they simply lacked the courage to be truthful._
_But the profound beauty of Shankar’s journey lies in what he became after being broken._
_Pain did not make him smaller;_
_it carved him deeper._
_It turned his chaos into clarity, his heartbreak into resolve._
_Life handed him rejection, betrayal, and abandonment — and yet he turned those wounds into wings._
There is philosophy in that kind of rise:
*When someone treats you as temporary, do not shrink.*
*Expand.*
*Grow so far beyond the version they used that even your past cannot recognise you.*
_Shankar’s evolution from a fiery student leader to a disciplined pilot wasn’t just career progression — it was spiritual transformation._
_He learned that purpose can be stronger than heartbreak,_
_that resilience can be louder than rejection,_
_and that the soul often discovers its direction only after losing what it once thought was its destination._
_Mukti, too, is a lesson:_
_that the mind and heart do not always walk in the same direction;_
that guilt can haunt even the brightest intellect;_
_and that running away from truth eventually leads a person back to the very pain they tried to avoid._
Their story teaches us philosophical truths:
• *We do not own the people we love; we only experience them.*
• *Love given with purity is never wasted, even if it is not returned.*
• *People may use us, leave us, or misunderstand us, but they cannot stop our becoming.*
• *The universe balances life in unexpected ways — sometimes through sacrifice, sometimes through loss.*
In Shankar’s final act — choosing duty over desire, protection over pain — he reveals the highest form of love:
*the love that asks for nothing in return.*
_His journey ends not with the fulfilment of romance, but with the fulfilment of character._
And perhaps that is the final philosophical truth:
*Life does not promise that the people we love will stay.*
*It only promises that every heartbreak will shape us into the person we were meant to become.*
*Some loves break us, but they also awaken us.*
*And in that awakening, we meet our truest self.*
*©The Therapeutic Thinker✍🏻*
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[03/12, 23:25]hu1: My honest thoughts on the movie "Tere Ishq Mein" ✍🏻
[04/12, 08:24]hu2: Haven't seen the movie although have seen it's spiritual prequel Raanjhana.
The description here appears to make it a tad male gender chauvinistic although I guess that wasn't the intention.
In fact interestingly the term "Chauvinism" was invented after the name Nicolas Chauvin, a legendary, fanatically patriotic soldier who served under Napoleon. Initially, it described a blind , excessive devotion to Napoleon and France, but its meaning has expanded to mean any fanatical, blind, or prejudiced loyalty to any group or cause!
Epilogue:
"_Pain did not make him smaller;_
_it carved him deeper._
_It turned his chaos into clarity, his heartbreak into resolve._
_Life handed him rejection, betrayal, and abandonment — and yet he turned those wounds into wings._"
*Thematic Analysis:*
1. *Evolving Nature of Love and Relationships:* The conversation highlights how love and relationships are perceived and experienced differently by Gen Z, with a focus on caution, self-protection, and the pursuit of meaningful connections.
2. *Challenges in Modern Relationships:* Discussions touch on the difficulties of maintaining relationships amidst societal pressures, technological influences, and personal expectations, leading to issues like emotional burnout and the blurring of lines between genuine connection and convenience.
3. *Importance of Emotional Maturity:* The need for emotional maturity, effective communication, and self-awareness in navigating relationships is emphasized, suggesting that these qualities are crucial for building and sustaining healthy, fulfilling partnerships.
4. *Personal Growth and Self-Discovery:* The conversation underscores the significance of focusing on personal growth, self-improvement, and understanding one's own values and desires as a foundation for healthier relationships.
*Key Learning Points:*
1. *Love and Relationships are Evolving:* Understand that perceptions and experiences of love and relationships change over time and vary across individuals and generations.
2. *Emotional Maturity is Key:* Recognize the importance of developing emotional maturity, communication skills, and self-awareness for successful relationships.
3. *Focus on Personal Growth:* Prioritize personal growth and self-discovery as a foundation for building meaningful and fulfilling relationships.
4. *Communication is Crucial:* Effective communication is vital in navigating the complexities of modern relationships and avoiding misunderstandings and hurt.
